Pain Management
My throat has been on fire for the last two weeks. Not just painful to swallow, but actively sore to the point of feeling raw inside. To this end I was able to secure a referral to the pain management clinic inside the Army hospital. I was initially seen last week, where I was prescribed Marinol (Army-legal THC oil capsules), a fentanyl patch, and a liquid version of gabapentin, which I’d previously used pre-cancer for nerve sensation management issues. Of course, liquid Tylenol was still on the docket but we were well past the light discomfort that it could address.
The pain doctor, Dr. George, explained that my whole career I’d gotten “baby opioids” for musculoskeletal injuries and someone like me with a very strong tolerance for opioids would need significantly stronger prescriptions. I voiced my concerns of not wanting to become a crackhead and he assured me the odds of that happening were basically non-existent in my case because there was no family history and that we’d reverse order the dosage of these medications during recovery. Fair enough, but it’s still something I’m going to remain cognizant of during recovery. Very much anti-becoming a crackhead.

After about a week of taking this combination I started to feel slightly better, and at my follow-up appointment it was determined I should up my doses to keep up with the rising pain level as well as introduce a faster acting short-term pain reliever hydromorphone. This worked wonderfully, until it didn’t. The drop off is steep and immediate and several times I’ve woken up writhing in pain because it quit in the middle of the night. I need to figure this out with Dr. George or I’m in for a miserable next couple weeks, crackhead status be damned. The duration of my meds’ relief is shorter and not as active. This should have been predicted because I’m coming up on three pretty terrible weeks for radiation related pain by all accounts, but me and everyone else sort of grew complacent I suppose.
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Over the last week I managed to finish my second to last week of radiation. Fortunately most of the appointments were in the evening so we were able to cut a lot of time off our return commute as the afternoon rush had already passed by. A small mercy, but a welcome one.
My mother went to pick up my kids Friday while Thomas took me to get zapped at proton therapy, both rides went fairly uneventful. When the kids got home I got them straight to bed and put myself down too. Sleep is something my body demands of me almost hourly now, even if for just two to five minute dozes. Staying up for the kids didn’t happen, safe to say, but I did wake up in time to get everything lined up for when they arrived.
Saturday me and my daughter got up and watered our garden, which is just about all the energy I could muster to do anything in the morning, and then we played board games until my mom loaded her into the car. They swung by the pharmacy to grab some of my new medications on the way to a “kids fest” that my base puts on every spring. By all accounts, she had a great time and they even went out to eat after. I’m glad she got out of the house for a quality experience and spent some quality time with her grandma absent her little brother.
Me and said little brother stayed behind and built a Hot Wheels track an old friend of mine sent over for him. After we got it figured out I laid back and took in some nutrition through my tube while he tooled around with it. My waking hours have to be multi-purpose, after all. See, apart from his sister my son is a great kid, but as soon as you put them in the same place at the same time he turns into a full blown terrorist. Discipline that works is hard to come by, and the only real way to get him to “act right” is to separate them. It’s a little disappointing, and sometimes they do ok together, but I had no idea they’d fight as much as they do at this age! This summer I will have to get creative because I won’t put up with the chaos for very long once I am more recovered and have a freer hand in communication and discipline.
Next week is my final week of treatment. Five radiation sessions and one round of chemo. The end one of the worst months of my entire life, and it’s still supposed to get worse until the cumulative effects wear off into mid-May. Ain’t life grand?
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